Stop chasing and allow yourself to be chased

by Sebastian
(Norway)

"How can I attract, get the attention of, and win over the love of a good woman?"

Ever considered reversing this slightly?

You're trying to do this from the wrong angle in my opinion. What you are saying is in my mind the woman's job. Your job is just to be there for when a women gives you the cues to take her. Stop trying so hard, don't think about anything and just have fun and women will eventually come to you.

Have fun with her, tease her, treat her like a bratty little sister and enjoy it!

As I'm typing this I'm realising that it's pointless to continue. A couple of sentences won't change a life time of beliefs.

If you REALLY want to get this area of your life handled, I'd advise you to google
David Deangelo, a man who has dedicated more than a decade of his life to answering that one single question you posted.