I agree with anonymous, that it is wrong to just go for it. That is the most immature way to handle a situation and it will only lead to heartache for everyone involved, especially children if there are any. The mature thing would be to end the marriage first, and then you can go and have all the flings you want. Rationalizing that you only live once and therefore you should do what your libido tells you to do is incredibly selfish.
Sep 15, 2009 Rating
ouch by: Anonymous
What a horrible thing to say. How disrespectful to not only yourself but to your significant other. Although we always seek happiness in our lives it is one thing to not be able to help who you fall for but it is another thing to deceive your partner in doing it. A respectful individual would at the very least cut the ties with the one they are unhappy with and then move on from there. What is wrong with our society? Does this make it ok for you to cheat just because you assume your other is not happy? Does this in some morbid way make you feel better and not make you have to take accountability for what you are doing? I hope you don't have any children.
