"She's Seeing Someone Else..."Dear WWWFM, I'm seeing a lady who’s in another relationship. We get along great, but I feel she’s making excuses and we just can’t get it together. She swears up and down that she loves me and I certainly love her. I want to move on but I can’t get her out of my every day thoughts. HELP!! Listen up Craig. This woman, no matter how great you get along and no matter how much she says she loves you, is NOT AVAILABLE. You are both doing a disservice to yourselves and each other. She is cheating on her partner and leading you on. And you are spending time and emotional energy on someone who is already in another relationship. You fell for someone who is unavailable for a reason and you need to think about what the reason might be. Here are some possibilities:
You have to do a little soul-searching to understand why you were attracted to an unavailable woman. The kindest thing you can do for yourself is to break up with her and then spend a little time alone to understand why you got yourself into that situation, so you can avoid doing the same thing all over again. Tell yourself you deserve someone who will be there for you 100%, body, heart and soul. And then don’t settle for less!
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