Well, we did go out for lunch and it went well. I kept if very light and we just caught up on what's been going on in our lives the past 5 months. I thought great...possible opening here. Well, a couple of days later I go on her FB page and see a comment from another guy that lives on the east coast.(We live in Midwest). The comment is mainly small talk but at the end he says "Miss you"... This kinda threw me a bit, is there someone else in her life? I don't know for sure. I plan on asking her out for another date and see what happens. If she was seeing someone else, why would she agree to have lunch with me?
Jim
Mar 13, 2009 Rating
You have been duped!! by: david
What you think you have learnt is: that maleness is attractive to women.
What you should have learnt is:
To change for a woman is folly!
What she tried to turn you into was a puppy dog that did everything that she thought she wanted, but...she can't be trusted. Many women have changeable minds.
Funnily enough, once she got what she wanted (i.e. emasculated you) and eroded your masculinity she is no longer attracted to you and she will seek out more "male" men
Now read carefully ... here is my first point...
IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO PLEASE (most) WOMEN
Now before you think I am some misogynist - I assure you - I'm not. I am a realist. Read on...
She wants you to do what she wants? Right? Then all of a sudden she wants you to be the original masculine you? Isn't this what you're describing?
Doesn't that kind of creepy double standard frighten you?
As a man we don't want our women to change.
We continue to want them to provide blowjobs regular sex, affection and companionship for the entire length of our relations.
Why can't they think more like us? Why do we need to change to be more like them?
Here is my second point.
Read carefully.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO CHANGE.
If you do she will probably lose respect for you and start sleeping with your friends...
See, your girlfriend was interested in you right up until the point you changed...
Let's say it again... your girlfriend WAS interested in you right up UNTIL you changed...
So NEVER pretend to be something you're not ... i.e. another woman... tell her that's what girlfriends are for and that you're just not going to be able to be anyone but yourself - A MAN!
So man up and go out and find a new woman and don't ever repeat this mistake again.
Good luck!
Mar 11, 2009 Rating
Go for it! by: WWWFM
I think if she is contacting you then she is still interested. I would ask her out on a real date and then take it from there. You can't really explain the change you made. You just have to live it and she will notice.
