I Was Possessive

Dear WWWFM,

I need help in getting my girl back. I was too possessive and was a big asshole for not letting her have freedom.

I know what mistakes I made, and I want to change for the better... However I just need to get some help and advice on how best to do it. Any sites or books would be great or advice! I want her back. Although she broke up with me. Please can you help me!

Dear Carlos,

If I had broken up with a boyfriend like you, the only thing that would make me consider taking him back would be if I knew he had worked on himself to figure out why he was possessive. In other words, he would have had to do some reading on the subject or talk to a therapist to get to the bottom of his behavior. Otherwise, what's to stop him from acting like that again?

>The fact that you admit you made a mistake is good. That means you stand a chance of overcoming it. This problem is rooted in fear and you need to understand where the fear is coming from. Strong relationships are based on trust and by acting suspiscious, you are telling your girlfriend that she is not trustworthy. Your chances for having a good, long-lasting relationship with any woman is slim unless you deal with this issue.

Have you read the page on this website Get Her Back? Read it and you'll also find a link near the bottom of the page to a book about relationship advice for men that might be helpful.

I hope this helps. Best of Luck...

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