No More Mr Nice Guy

by Adam
(United Kingdom)

This article about 'Nice Guy Syndrome' has really helped me to think hard and really look at myself to discover where I have been going wrong with the ladies.

I am your typical Mr Nice Guy and I'm used to girls turning me down and saying "I just want to be friends."

I definitely agree that nice guys always finish last when it comes to women. All my relationships have ended before they have even started because I am too needy, awkward and I try too hard to make it work.

Most recently I started dating this girl who had got out of an engagement two months ago. After a week of hanging out and getting close she decided she wasn't ready and ended it. I've liked this girl for a long time and I thought she was perfect.

I hate being so nice all the time and I feel so angry at myself. I know that I could treat a girl well and be a great boyfriend, I just need the opportunity. I'm so sick of watching all these 'Bad Boys' get all the women and then treat them like dirt.