Mr.

by Mark
(Sydney, Australia)

hey there,

I think that possibly I suffer from this.

I'm 27, live out of home, own a car and motorcycle, work a good job with good pay and am always well-mannered and dressed (neat and tidy) and work out regularly.

But it just seems like most girls I date say to me, you're a really nice guy BUT....

After reading your article I don't believe I'm doing these things out of desperation or to impress girls, I do them because I genuinely am a nice guy.

flowers
dinner
movies
opening doors
saying nice things
picnics
msgs/calls


I have done them because I believed girls wanted to be treated nicely and they want decent guys.

But overall I'm starting to believe all girls want to be treated like crap, not feel they are cared about or loved and want the guys who will break their hearts.

Its very unlikely it's true but after you go on as many dates as I have and see what I see it just makes you think like that.