Getting Her to Meet Me

by Jim
(St.. Louis)

I have had an online relationship with a 40 yr old woman for 6 months...we have exchanged many pictures and hundreds of emails discussing every topic under the sun.

She had left a 3-year relationship about 3 months before we connected...she is currently newly involved with a major initiative in the non-profit area. She travels back and forth from Washington DC to London and is very wrapped up in her work. she tells me that we're very compatible and feels deeply about me. I can't get her to meet me in person...she tells me that a relationship with me is a lower priority right now but she thinks it would be a good idea for us to meet in time.

I feel so emotionally attracted to her after these many months I don't know how to convince her and I can't get myself to give her an ultimatum. I can't stop thinking about her...Any advice from a female perspective would be appreciated.