Another nice guy...

by Gary
(Salem, OR)

I think girls are attracted to just what you mentioned. The cocky, somewhat arrogant
guys seem to be more attractive to most women. That said, I think the women that are
constantly attracted to such men are attracted to them continously, never have long term relationships with them, and can't figure out why they are never happy. Same for men. We (all of us) tend to look for the same things over and over and can't figure out why we can't find "the one". It's hard to get away from what attracts you, tho. Most people I have met (both men and women) keep going out with the same types over and over. The saying: doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results (insanity) sure applys here! I don't know the secret, either, just voicing my opinions.